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Why confidence matters more than you think....

  • info040553
  • Jul 17
  • 2 min read

"My child is smart, but they just do not believe in themsevles"


If you have ever said these words, you are not alone. We have worked with hundred of students over the years and hear this all the time. Confidence is not just nice to have - it is the foundation that determines whether a child will thrive or struggle academically.


A child's belief in their abilities often matters more than their actual abilities. Think about it for a moment... two children with identical intelligence levels have completely different academic outcomes. The difference? One believes they can learn and improve, while the other has convinced themsleves they are "just not good at this".


When children lose academic confidence, it creates a vicious cycle....poor performance - lower confidence - less effort - worse results - even lower confidence.


We have seen bright capable students convince themsevles they are not good at something because they strugglerd with one subject or failed one test. This self limiting belief then spreads to other areas of their learning.



Signs your child's confidence in suffering:


  1. "I'm just bad at math/english/science - labelling themselves as incapable.

  2. Avoiding challenges - sticking to only what feels safe.

  3. Perfectionism or giving up - all or nothing thinking.

  4. Comparing themsleves negatively to classmates.

  5. Physical symptoms - stomach aches before tests, reluctance to go to school.


At Cambridge Online Tuition we nurture the child and build their confidence by:


  1. Focusing on the process, not just the results.

  2. Celebrate the small wins.

  3. Normalise struggle.

  4. Find their learning style.

  5. Provide the right support.


In the years we have been tutoring, we have seen remarkable transformations when confidence is restored.


If your child has lost their academic confidence, please know this is not permanent. With the right support, proven methods, and guidance, every child can rediscover their love of learning.


Do not wait for confidence to return on its own - the longer children struggle with self- doubt the deeper these beliefs become embedded.


Please do reach out to us for a free consultation on how we can help your child with their learning journey. We are always here to support you every step of the way.


 
 
 

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